Make a list of at least five things that you want to improve about your character.
Now next to each of these things write down what changes you will need to make in order to successfully change those negative traits into positive ones.
Here is an example:
What I Would Like To Change
For example: I want to stop being aggressive.
What I Can Do To Change
For example: I will practice self-control, be patient with others, or not speak harshly.
Can you think of any other ways that you can change your character so that it becomes more positive?
Developing positive character starts with making small changes in our lives. There is no point in looking at others and picking on their faults. We all have a responsibilty to change our own lives and better only our own character. Once we start to make small changes in ourselves we will see that it will become easier and naturally we will be inclined to behave in a more positive way. (Inshaa Allah)
Developing a good character takes a lot of work and it is an ongoing effort. At times it can become very difficult. Perseverance and patience is therefore of utmost importance. Only after hard work will we begin to see the benefits, but the work is worth it as we will see that good character helps us to be more at peace, not only with others, but with ourselves as well!
Some of the Material for this post was referenced from: www.peacefulsolution.org/curriculum/.../Parenting-Manual-Lesson-2.pdf
